i've been seeing this guy for over a year. he's been in and out of jail...every time i try and go to see him something happens...the last time was this past sunday, and i got in a car accident driving to pick him up.(my car was totalled) Everybody is telling me that he's no good and bad for me. But i've never loved anyone so much, and i know he's feels the same way. i haven't seen him in two months, but we keep in touch thru e-mail...should i leave him or stay with him?
2006-08-02 18:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by RedBoNe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Really depends on the type of relationship with him. Just because hes in jail means nothing. And it is not a sign just because of the accident. It is only a bad day. So hey love him and care for him and if things are meant to ever end they will but dont count on it ending.
2006-08-02 18:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by my4x4truck454 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him go I think a higher power is tryin to enlighten you on what is yet to come if you dont let him go. There are two types of people that come into your life it's the ones that are there til death does you part and it's the seasonal relationships, dont try to turn a seasonal into a life long because of how you feel. Its up to you to distinguish which one this guy is.But I think someone up stairs has already answered that question for you. Sometime letting go is the best thing for a relationship.
2006-08-02 18:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by thugmisses0084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him or do you just think you do? It sounds like to me he's bad news. Take it from someone who's been there. I had a bf like that and I thought I loved him too the truth was I loved being needed, and then I hated it. I stayed in it too long and ended up hurt/ physically and emotionally. He is now serving a 40yr sentence. Get out while you can. Good luck
2006-08-02 18:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe look at it like this. If someone is in and out of jail, he has problems he needs to address. He has to straighten himself out. He will resent you if you try to fix him. He needs the dignity of doing it himself. If he's not interested in fixing himself, you're setting yourself up for a miserable hell. You could be a casual friend and be supportive if he wantd to change. Otherwise, you really have to move on, pain and all.
2006-08-02 18:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. its obvious that u wont have a good future with someone in and out o f jail. yea i kno it may be hard cuz u lovee him or watever but think about...do u really wanna live with someone one in and out of jail? u'll have too much stress. besides those signs that u shouldn't go see him...those aren't accidents. they're happening for a purpose, that u guys aren't the rite match. good luck
2006-08-02 19:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by ESTHER'D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION, IT SOUND LIKE]THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE, AND
THAT MAY BE SOME WORRIES THAT MAY BE THE REAL
REASON THAT THINGS ARE GOING ON.
2006-08-02 18:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-08-02 18:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"HE'S BEEN IN AND OUT OF JAIL"
2006-08-02 18:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by acidicblackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋