Family & Relationships - 28 July 2006

For me it was I think 4th grade her name Was Brandi. She was Stacked. To this day I never kissed her or anything. In like 7th grade she would always flash me and stuff, I never knew what to do I was a shy idiot.

2006-07-28 04:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-28 04:03:01 · 6 answers · asked by wan m 1 in Singles & Dating

I spent a whole day with her. I talked to her she laughed and giggled.
I went and got her flowers and asked her and she said ( I don't know) then my friends found out I liked her and so the asked her twice and the first time she said she might brake up with her b/f and then they asked her again and she said no ( I didnt know about they asked her) I should say what does this mean?

2006-07-28 04:02:53 · 5 answers · asked by Zachary 1 in Singles & Dating

She just broke up with her boyfriend, but before they broke up he always said I love you, but then he go behind her back and get other girls' number. but now that they broke up, hes all im sorry i love u to her. what should she do?

2006-07-28 04:01:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going to tell my good friend i love her, in person, ive never done any thing like this b4 so im just looking for some advice. I would just tell
her over the internet but i dont want to come of as a little *****, i think she has feelings for someone else but i have no idea what her reaction would be like anyways.
A little help someone?

2006-07-28 04:01:32 · 7 answers · asked by amplifyd1 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me,will my mom and dad get divorced?

2006-07-28 04:01:24 · 7 answers · asked by Lilac 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is always working and if he aint at work he's with her.He gets payed every Friday.Before moves out I just want to spent time with him.From time to time we do stuff but not offten.

2006-07-28 04:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by sweetyhart02 1 in Family

2006-07-28 04:00:36 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got born again four years ago, and I now realize I need to solemnize my marriage in church but my church only deals with weddings of newly married couples.I sincerely wish to solemnize my marriage with the only wife Iam married to. I need a sincere,spiritual guidence and not a destructive approach.Be guided by the Holy spirit when dealing with this issue.Once again,Iam born again with my wife and children.We need to live a life of a recognized marriage by earthly law and spiritual law.See the need to give an answer with spiritual guidence.Thank you so much for taking your trouble in advising us.God bless you mightly.

2006-07-28 04:00:15 · 9 answers · asked by boniface b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom thinks it is fine as long as he treats me right... but my stepdad doesn't like it at all what should i do???

2006-07-28 04:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by lilbabiboo74 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u loose your virginity if you masturebate ?

2006-07-28 03:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

flirt shamelessly with my Doctor (internist, NOT Gyn)???? He does so with me, and I've never really reciprocated. I think I'd like to give it right back to him. I'm scheduled for an annual physical in September. Flirting is harmless, right?

2006-07-28 03:59:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My nephew turned 3 two months ago...his parents are trying to get him potty trained so he can go to school this fall but their pediatrician is telling them not to rush it because he is not mentally prepared.

The kid screams and cries if you put him on the potty...what's going on and what do you think they should do...

tips...advice...anything?

2006-07-28 03:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by Snuz 4 in Family

2006-07-28 03:58:27 · 26 answers · asked by Smily 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-28 03:57:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend, and i know it was the best thing for everyone involved. He didnt have what it took to make me happy (he wasnt there for emotionally!) And i feel so bad. Men on the other hand, they are just fine and move on in a couple of minutes. Why do women sit and dwell on it?

2006-07-28 03:56:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 03:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 03:55:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she would go out with me again, wednesday I called and left a message sying I really had a good time last night (tuesday) and she has not called me, and I have not called since then, today is friday, should I wait and see if she is calling or you think now she has to call. I dont remember I might have said on wednesday when I called to tell her I really enjoyed her company and would like to go out again that I might call her these days ( prob. today ), but again I dont remember, my friend (the one that set us up said I should wait for her to call, and dont be pushy,, what do you advice ????

2006-07-28 03:55:26 · 12 answers · asked by chavitini 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 03:54:26 · 4 answers · asked by Tychi 1 in Singles & Dating

Greek

2006-07-28 03:53:34 · 4 answers · asked by dee 1 in Friends

The first thing that needs pointed out is that women love sex; if they didn't then there wouldn't be billions of people conceived through sex. Now that may sound obvious but there was a period in the 1990s when feminists ruled even more than they do now and back then they asserted that, 'all sex is rape'. Now, a, the feminists/male-haters are talking rubbish and, b, we all know they're talking rubbish, now; but in the 90s people believed what they had to say. It's unthinkable to us now, but it used to be believed.

Secondly, the whole issue of 'rape' needs put in context, it's an out dated notion; I mean, the concept that a woman's genitals are special is a joke--- huge numbers of women in the west are prostituting themselves to our governments. And let's just focus on the idea of something being put in our bodies without our consent, it means nothing. If a woman put her finger in our mouths then we wouldn't cry rape. And every one of us have had our wives stick her finger in our mouths, just to annoy us. To suggest that it's somehow different when it's a woman's body is discrimination and needs to be treated as such. Also the people who commit such discrimination need to be prosecuted. The days of discriminaton and male-hatred/misandry are over.
On the other hand if we want rape to be an issue because it's a Biblical concept then ok but many other things come with that. If we're going to have Biblical penalties for men then we would need Biblical penalties for women who falsely cry rape. Of whom there are vast numbers it has to be remembered. The penalty is to be equal to the penalty that the man would have got, had he been guilty*. For a list of what this would mean to her see below**.

And what about the so called 'rape' of innocents.
If a woman has sex with a minor, which is rape in law, then why don't women get punished as often?

This is all just discrimination and we need to call it such. Thankfully we're all aware of discrimination now and this let's us all see that women really have had a cosy deal. With virtually everything biased in their favour.

Now some may say that one isn't traumatized when one's wife sticks her finger in one's mouth. Well first I refute that and second the law doesn't say anything about the woman's need to be traumatized. It just says that you have to be having sex after she has decided that she doesn't want you in that location. One micro-second after she has decided.
The law says that you have to prove that she gave her consent. Now how are you going to do that?!! The law needs to be laughed at here and derided. So just think about it, you will have to hand your woman a form and get her signature each time that you sleep with her, and come to think of it then you would need to get her to sign it anew every second just to make sure that she's not changed her mind.
This is the way the government treats every man who tries to help his country. Next time that there's a war on they will want us to fight for them too. And they'll want to shoot us for being frightened too- just as they did in the first, 'world war'. Think about that--- being abused whilst women get to sit by nice warm fires- as allways, traditionally, happened.
I want to point out that I was crying as my wife stuck her finger in my mouth so if that's not trauma then what is? I felt emotionally unable to deal with all of the stuff that she was doing to me, and there was more you can be sure. So I just tried to switch off. If we take physical force out of the equation then my wife is stronger than me, and when she has destroyed my ability to think rationally then my body doesn't have a mind making it do anything, and so physical strength isn't in the equation. Rather it's a question of mental strength, and we already know that it's men who are Learned Helpless, and men who are paralysed by their wife's emotional abuse. Going on a tangent from that, if the point is that trauma makes a rape valid then what about the trauma that men feel as their wives are leaving or abusing them, this must also be 'rape'. We don't call it such because we're brainwashed to be sexist against men. Now brainwashing from mom is a wonderfull thing and it has kept us safe but here it's just gone way too far.
Now a fact is also that it's men who are emotionally disabled and who are not even able to get to the authorities and report what's happening to them, so we really don't need any more excuses for violent women. Rather we need a check put on these women so that men will become freed to report the abuse that they suffer.

*Deut 19:18

**She is, to be locked up in a cell for years, to have her food spat in daily, to be banged up 23 hours a day, to have her family ripped apart, to have her livelihood taken from her, and if she has actually managed to withstand all of this treatment and come out of it in one piece, then, to be brutally beaten when seen outdoors and left brain-damaged, to be driven from her home and friends, to be spat on, to never have any prospects... One could spend forever talking about the things which happen to a man when he's a victim of false allegations. Well if you want the Biblical form of things then this, all, must be done to the woman.

Funnily enough the 'anti rape brigade' don't want the Biblical form of things. That's fine, then the only thing left to do is to treat men and women equal. This means 'rape' being no more of a 'crime' than a woman putting her finger in a man's mouth. We must stop supporting the old discrimination. Period. Those who commit it must be put in prison. Period.

2006-07-28 03:53:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a man that I have been friends for for 14 years and we lost contact maybe 8 years ago. We never dated but we were good friends and often flirted with each other. After high school we would hang out and eventually we would kiss, make out, and grind but never anything further. Now 3 months ago we ran into each other and we have been hanging out like the good ole days. We like each other, but we never talk about it. I have not been with a man in almost 4 years and everytime we are together I cannot bring myself to talk to him about it us. 2 weeks ago I spent the nite at his house and we ended up just kissing on each other. I didn't give it up. so yesterday I went to visit him and he had a fading hickey on his neck and I felt awkward and hurt. Later that nite I went to visit him at work and he was looking at me with these eyes that make me melt. We did not talk about it. Today is his birthday and he wants me to come over all day. But now what shall I do, now that he had the hickey

2006-07-28 03:52:35 · 6 answers · asked by djzlyric 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he loves me vry much.

2006-07-28 03:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who 17 years ago she got to spend some time with her crush. She was 18 at the time. It was just 16 hours of time with him. He showed her how to shoot a bow took her to her first bar hopping frenzie. During this time she got drunk and he asked her if they could have sex. She said no. But they made out heavy and she had her first real orgasm. Now still after all these years when she has a orgasm she cant without thinking of that nite. She thinks he was a gentleman cause he asked her for sex and didnt push her into it. And this nite was special to her. I think he jus wanted one thing from her. Am i wrong? And how do you help her move on from that situation?

2006-07-28 03:51:21 · 9 answers · asked by krayzeman32 2 in Singles & Dating

And why does the victim have to pay his abuser 18 years of 'child support'?

There is going to be one who says that rape isn't a big issue; so just reverse it to see how rotten a thing that is to say.- So raping women doesn't matter and is *not* a crime? How's it sound now? Heck there will be someone who will says that it's the victims fault.

2006-07-28 03:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it much better than the other way. Explain why

2006-07-28 03:51:04 · 29 answers · asked by toots 3 in Singles & Dating

what did you do in the first date...

2006-07-28 03:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by feera 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-28 03:50:36 · 7 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5 in Weddings

North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

2006-07-28 03:50:16 · 2 answers · asked by CHARITY M 1 in Weddings