My mom thinks it is fine as long as he treats me right... but my stepdad doesn't like it at all what should i do???
2006-07-28 04:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by lilbabiboo74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Grow up
2006-07-28 04:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure the black boys can't help falling for you either. YOu obviously got something about you that irresistable. Always maintain self respect. Make sure they treat you right and don't be any man's doormat. When I was 15 I dated white girls and thier dads werent cool with it until they met me and saw that I was respectful and not some MTV idiot wanna be rapper. Thats all dads want is for his baby girl to be treated right. So he may not be cool with the idea of it but as he meets these boys he will have favorites and dislikes. Be patient it takes us men a while to let things grow on us. Remeber it's all done out of Love. At least he cares right? so.............Peace
2006-07-28 11:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't fall for "black" boyz. you fall for boys who happen to be black. and there is nothing wrong with that. the boys your step-father should have problems with are the ones that are disrespectful, abusive, controlling, posessive, manipulative, and so forth. keep your open heart and open mind! they will both take you far in the world.
and, sweetie, being "treated right" should be a standard for any guy that you date (not only the black ones).
good luck with your step-dad.
2006-07-28 11:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your mom say something to your stepdad. Just try to avoid contact with your stepdad.
2006-07-28 11:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but yea i know exactly how you feel. i think "black" guyz are awesome. i have a lot of black friends. my family isnt really racist or nething they just are a little old fashion when it comes to "our mexican culture". but yea they gave me the same advice...they just say black people are different. but i totally disagree. i would follow your heart. if you like them u like them. ur stepdad is just going to have to accept the fact that this is just how u r. he'll eventually and hopefully will get over it.
2006-07-28 11:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl in this world color is not important wen it comes to love if you meet a black boy an he treat you like a queen to hell with what other people think or say most black boys now just how to please a woman and how to treat her so you do your thing
2006-07-28 11:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your stepdad to stop hating
2006-07-28 11:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by casheye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your white date white guys if you black date black guys if you brown date brown guys and if your..................
2006-07-28 12:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever
2006-07-28 11:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋