Family & Relationships - 25 July 2006

the question is big, but please read... i need some help...

my gf says she wants to have babies. i told her that we're both young and that we should think about it in 5 or 10 years from now... i said exacly those words... but she started saying that i don't want them cause i don't love her and stuff like that. she said she was gonna leave me if i dind't make up my mind (?!)...
i don't get it... she's only gonna stay if i agree to do something only because she wants?? if i was the one wanting the kids she would leave cause i was forcing her to so something she didn't want...
it's not like i don't love her... it's just that i'm not ready for it yet...
what should i do to make her stay and show her my point of view??

2006-07-25 00:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sam. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hai friends, give me a solution to this

my collegue working with me, wants to have sex with me.
her age is 32yrs. we both are only the staffs for the office, and
no body.
what to do with this?

2006-07-25 00:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by SPI V 1 in Singles & Dating

We met because we both go to the gym everyday, but then one weekend when he went out of town he stopped calling and dissappeared from his usual daily gym routine. When i randomly see him working out and actually speak to him he says he has been really busy with work and lists all the places he has to travel. I even asked him if he wanted his shirt back that i borrowed and he basically said he didnt have time to worry about that right now. I know he is busy because he is never at the gym BUT Is he just usuing that as an excuse to blow me off? If you really liked someone wouldnt you make time for a text or call? Is it imature if I avoid speaking to him when i do end up seeing him?

2006-07-25 00:43:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do u know the meaning of i don't know??????
u don't know
am i right
????????

2006-07-25 00:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:40:54 · 15 answers · asked by Madam Diva 1 in Weddings

2006-07-25 00:40:53 · 33 answers · asked by dirtyminx82 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:40:11 · 15 answers · asked by DL 6 in Singles & Dating

...day, you couldn't get through to them just their voicemail, what would you do? Would you be worried about thenm and their safety etc?

2006-07-25 00:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by smart_babe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I split 5 years ago after a 7 1/2 year relationship due to the pressure that my partners mates put him under, calling him under the thumb because we were more or less "married off". Now however, the tables' turned and my ex is all alone and all his mates are co-habiting or married.

I feel that now he is feeling the pressure to find someone to be with but although its been 5 years since we split he hasn't had a girlfriend since.

What should I do?

2006-07-25 00:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can't find them anywhere

2006-07-25 00:37:53 · 32 answers · asked by monkeywoman1979 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:36:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i proposed a girl after makin her quite a good friend.she rejected telling she couldnt remain my fren also.i was badly hurt.after that no communication .gradually i started forgetting her.but now whenever she meets me on line in yahoo msgr,she starts talkin as if we r still very close fren.morever today she told me that she wanted to meet me.i asked her if she had changed her mind regarding my proposal.she rapidly replied with negative ans.i m wonderin why she wants to meet me then.if i start meetin her i may develop same kinda feelings.i m confused what to do next.

2006-07-25 00:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-25 00:35:23 · 33 answers · asked by jezabel 1 in Family

Not like you met each other in a hookup chatroom or anything. Like a friend of a friend's relative. And they are really decent and trustworthy, seems like you've known each other forever (even tho you never met) and talk on the phone all the time, mail each other gifts and letters on special occasions, etc. Like really bonded with that person and the emotional attachment is so strong that you almost don't believe you're complete strangers in real life. There's a lot more to it, but to much to say. But the bottom line.. very strong, unbreakable bond. (plus same age group, etc.) only thing is the two used to live in same state but one moved unexpectedly before anything was able to happen. Opinions/advice/comments/anything welcome plz thx!

2006-07-25 00:33:53 · 20 answers · asked by HotFudgeSundae 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel terribly sad. I'm a pretty girl, but I have a very low self-esteem and a weak self-confidence. I am so scared of being in love with smb, and that's why I try to avoid getting involved in a relationship. My ex bf and I had been together for 5 years, he cheated on me with my best friend, and since then I have this fixed idea, like an obsession that all guys are going to cheat on me. I suffer a lot because of this.
Now I have a new boyfriend (we have been together for about 1 month now) but I don't feel OK. I like (maybe love) this guy, but I'm so scared to let it go. We fight a lot cause I have this fixed idea that he's going to cheat on me. I can't help it.
What can I do to improve our relationship and above all to improve my self-confidence, cause I'm not going anywhere like this.
Please help. Please tell me what can I do. Or there is no way to get out of this terrible feeling?

2006-07-25 00:32:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:31:06 · 29 answers · asked by dava 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-25 00:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by William B 1 in Singles & Dating

All the good guys are either straight or married.....the idiots are all that's left.

2006-07-25 00:29:49 · 6 answers · asked by AndyGA 1 in Singles & Dating

This lady is some1 who knew me & my husband.She started developing feelings for my husband and vice versa.Recently I found out about their secret rendevous and my husband ask for a 2nd chance to start with him. What do you think of this 'bxxxx", should I confront her? My husband has said that he will try to minimise talking to her and will not see her in person anymore and said that he knows his mistakes and will break off with her. However, this 'bxxxx' is still on his MSN list, how can I believe it? Do you think they are still in contact?

Pls advise..

2006-07-25 00:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by hunnylashes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i proposed a girl after makin her quite a good friend.she rejected telling she couldnt remain my fren also.i was badly hurt.after that no communication .gradually i started forgetting her.but now whenever she meets me on line in yahoo msgr,she starts talkin as if we r still very close fren.morever today she told me that she wanted to meet me.i asked her if she had changed her mind regarding my proposal.she rapidly replied with negative ans.i m wonderin why she wants to meet me then.if i start meetin her i may develop same kinda feelings.i m confused what to do next.

2006-07-25 00:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I left a married man that I really love cause I cant take it anymore. It is messing up my life and I know it.

For the record, I really dont think he is playing any games because he has tried to show me he cares but at the same time I am tired of waiting and wanting and wondering. He says they had problems before I came along. He does not feel respected and he cant deal with her kids. He says he wants out.

Now all we do is argue so I broke it off because it is really best. Neither one of us is happy together anymore and he WAS NOT going to break up with me any time soon. I think they doing better right now and I am very jealous too so..

He needs to get his stuff together period. I dont think I should be around for all of that stuff.

However I am still in love with him and I just dont know the best way to deal with what has happen. I do know that as long as he is married,,,,,I dont want to be involved. But I am hoping if he leaves we can try out love then.

2006-07-25 00:27:31 · 2 answers · asked by Jrattcliff 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you believe it if he told you and he was only 15 years old I asked him if he played me but he won't answer...I was his teacher BEFORE NOT NOW...I WANT TO KNOW WHY HE SAID THIS BUT HE REFUSES TO ANSWER ME what a joke he is!

2006-07-25 00:27:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by amro e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do u expect from me?

2006-07-25 00:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so myself and richard have been together for almost a year. We're totally in love.

He's got this close female friend called Kerry. They've always been kinda close (like to the point of wrestling and stuff) but recently I've found myself getting really jealous of her - and for this reason...

I feeel like she's turning into me, like somehow she's becoming my replacement - I was upset the other day when I went round to his house and found all his old family photos on the lounge floor - he'd been showing them to Kerry. Before this, i know that I was the only one to have seen them for some years. And for this I felt privileged. Other things too - me & rich have always loved films by Baz LUhrmann - and now he's watching them with her, and she'd buying soundtrack CDs and stuff. Its nothing in particular, just little things. Things like he's got a new car without a CD player, so I said I'd make some tapes with him - and the next thing he's made them with her.

What should I think?

2006-07-25 00:24:53 · 5 answers · asked by amyeighteenlancaster 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-25 00:23:32 · 7 answers · asked by littlemoon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they are age 9 and nearly 14. They spend their time either playing on the computer, watching TV or eating junk (the nearly 14 one is a chocoholic) and make no attampt at finding other stuff to do. They are becoming v unhealthy fat und unfit. The 9 year old copies the other and says he likes computers because the real world is so bad and his life is so awful which is a load of rubbish: he doesn't have a clue really and i know its a philosophy he's copied off the older one who is evem scared of going to the village shop. They're good people really but i dont think its healthy for them to carry on as they are (socially and physically).
Any ideas of how i can help them?

2006-07-25 00:21:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

situation in you life? Did you learn from the situation? Have you made the same mistake again?

2006-07-25 00:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by twinklecomfort 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

that yahoo answer has gotten vulgar, and not in a good way. where have all the good peeps gone?

2006-07-25 00:20:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating