i proposed a girl after makin her quite a good friend.she rejected telling she couldnt remain my fren also.i was badly hurt.after that no communication .gradually i started forgetting her.but now whenever she meets me on line in yahoo msgr,she starts talkin as if we r still very close fren.morever today she told me that she wanted to meet me.i asked her if she had changed her mind regarding my proposal.she rapidly replied with negative ans.i m wonderin why she wants to meet me then.if i start meetin her i may develop same kinda feelings.i m confused what to do next.
2006-07-25 00:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Obviously you don't know women so well, she can't commit until she gets to know you. She also might be unsure of herself. She might not be interested in a relationship right now. It could mean a great deal of things...Don't cast her aside just yet. Give her a chance. what you have to lose? These experiences make life worth be living.
2006-07-25 01:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by nina al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then simply tell her no ..Explain that if she has no intentions of being with you and she is not interested then you are not interested to meet her.. See what she' s gonna say.. If she still wants you to go then i think you should because she has probably started have feelings for you but she just wants to make sure or play it difficult to get..Be very careful though ..
Good luck to you!
2006-07-25 00:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just trying to get that friendship back but dont want that u want her. so yeah if u got over her this would cancel all of it.so tell her no i dont think we should meet cuz just be honest that it hurt to let go of u and u dont want to develop feeling again. u have moved on so she needs to leave u b.good job man i know it was hard
2006-07-25 00:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, I only guessed but not sure becoz i dont know her. Her nature or her feeling about u. May be she cant accept ur proposal but she want to continue that friendship which ends according to you . Now i think if she continue your freindship , then i think apko accept kar lena chahiye . May be uske proposal mana karne ka reason aap na ho balki koi personal reasons ho . apko uski friendship accept kar leni chahiye aur uske baad wait karo ki kabhi to wo accept karegi. Ho sakta hai Long life partners na banke , Aap acche friends ban sako apni apni feelings ke sath. Love sirf apne ki khushi honi chahiye .
2006-07-25 00:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ritu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is much more mature than you. You have few options where as she has many options. She is testing you from all angles. Do not over estimate yourself. You may safely respond to her without imputing any motive to each of her gestures.
2006-07-25 00:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't have time to meet her, that you have some other important things to do.
2006-07-25 00:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should just stay away from this babe....she is one of those kinds who like getting attention and use it for there ego satusfaction..
its better if you stop communicating with her and get her out of all your mesengers and life....
you deserve much better in life...........atleast someone who'll respect your love and feelings!!
2006-07-25 00:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with these people saying not to talk to her or meet her... she sounds like she doesn't know What she wants and you dont need someone like that
2006-07-25 00:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lose ur life by falling in love with her ...
2006-07-25 00:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Manis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋