the situation is we have been married over ten years ,but for last couple she seems to feel we have been going our seperate ways.somewere along the way a few months ago she started working with a home builder who is pretty successful.for the last 2 months it has gotten where we never talked.now i no why!!!!she says she fell in love with him.he was there for her when i wasnt.i think she never give me a chance to be there for her.well i found out three weeks ago and we were trying to make things better and she said we could maybe working things out ,but then she told me she was still confused.all long she has been telling both she loves us and she just needs time to think.she says that if she only knew what it would be like with him maybe she would not even really want him.so my bright idea ,i told her to take a week out of town with him and see if anything is there.they have never had anything other than a hug together.did i just make the stupidist mistake of my life.because it hurts!!!
2006-07-12
12:54:01
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Marriage & Divorce