is size 9 too big of a pants size for a 5'4'' girl? I catch guys looking at my butt but then I just don't feel confident? Are they looking cuz it is too big? I am not fat/flabby, i am in pretty good shape but I just can't get my hip size down.
Do you guys like a pants size 9 on a girl as short as me?
2006-07-12 12:47:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wonder if they look cuz my hips are too big....
2006-07-12 12:47:36 · update #1
Honey, women are so much more critical of themselves than guys are. We can think we look like the Bride of Frankenstein and THE GUYS are thinking, Damn!! She's Hot!! If we saw ourselves through their eyes, we'd be so stuck up it wouldn't even be funny. lol
2006-07-12 13:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I would be happy to wear a size 9. I couldn't tell you the last time I did. But even when I was in my late teens I was in a 12 and I was not over weight, just big butt and all the boys liked it.(I am 5'4 too) Don't worry about it. You need to feel confident about your self before you can be happy.
2006-07-12 19:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all...you're not too short. short is really a relevant term. i mean, if you're trying to date a basketball player, then yes, you're probably too short--otherwise, you're about an average height for a girl. secondly, i usually tend to date girls that are a size 2-4...6 if she's realy curvy. but that's not to say that there aren't plenty of guys out there that like a girl that's a little thicker. and no, 9 is not too big. it just means that you're a curvy girl. no matter how hard you work out, you're always gonna have hips. and p.s. if a guy is looking at your butt, they're not thinking that it's big...they like it. guys don't even notice a girl unless they think she's hot.
2006-07-12 19:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hunny there not lookin cuz it's too big a size 9 is good guys will check u out way more so dont try loose ur butt just be known for it and ware cute pants that shape but make sure and ware a thong cuz panty lines are nasty good luck
2006-07-12 19:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I am here to tell you that even though size 9 is a little bit large for you, it is far from OBESE. I am 5 51/2 and wear a 16, so count your blessings. And yes, your confidence is affecting your confidence, I know it does mine. Walk 3 to 5 times a week, eat a healthy diet, do butt and thigh exercises and love yourself for who you are :)
2006-07-12 19:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shazaam guys really don't care about that stuff. if they're checking you out is because they like what they see. confidence is more of a turn on. don't worry about your butt guys like that too. 5' 4" is a good height for a women and not everyone is built the same. just be comfortable in your skin its the only one you get. what is trash to some is treasure to others. always hold your head up and smile. you are who you are. and that's what you are. beautiful.
2006-07-12 19:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about what the guys are thinking. In your mind, you know that you are a cute, voluptuous, and hot girl! just keep reminding yourself that, and instead of wondering whether or not they are staring at the size, think that they are staring at the hottness! Be an optimist in this case: remember, the glass is half full!!!!!!
2006-07-12 19:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they look cause guys like big hips...9 is fine, if you really feel self conscious, try to lose weight. im not saying you're fat!! but guys like big hips and big butts
2006-07-12 19:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by mozartrox811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, unless you are over/under weight, there is nothing you can do about the way you are built. the only thing you can do is to accept it and buy clothes that are flattering to your figure. when i was young, like 12, my aunt told me that i had "birthing hips". i was mortified. but that was until i discovered that some guys like wide hips and it only took me 6 hours to have my first child. guys like confidence more than they like your shape.
2006-07-12 19:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol , that is soo awesome , im just as tall as you and wear the same size lol , well no , there lookin b cuz most guys think big butts are sexy ,, weird ... i know , but i guess thats just how they are lol
2006-07-12 19:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋