She/he was TOTALLY feminine and beautiful!!!! Honestly I am not the best looking guy and most of the girls I date are about 5-6's. This girl/dude was a 8 or 9!!! Nicest legs I have ever seen, pretty face. Should I mind that she might have male anatomy or should I just go for it????
2006-07-12 12:53:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you find this person attractive, there is nothing wrong with dating and seeing where it leads. Always remember to be kind and careful and you should be ok!
Peace!
2006-07-12 12:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if she was that fine what makes you think she might be male ? Second of all, none of us on here can tell you weather or not to go for it. Only you can make that decision. My guess is that you are not homophobic and look at people for who they are and not what they are. If she was indeed a male at one time but has had the surgery to become female then who cares in the long run. Take her out slow dancing where you can hold her close and see if you feel anything. Other that having a make out session where you two will end up groping each other and you find out once and for all I can't think of a diplomatic way to ask such a personal question. I say go for it if it feels right. You can't tell a book by it's cover.
2006-07-12 13:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
per chance that's all somewhat a lot for her on the first date. i don't think of she replaced into out of line, she ought to in actuality be a virgin or having her month-to-month or be searching for a serious courting. How lengthy have you ever commonly used this female? You cant extremely rush those type of issues on a lady. From the way you've defined her I take it that she is the shy form and ought to have a troublesome time commencing as a lot as you, now to not educate make it easier to're making a flow on her. She likely purely wasn't delicate adequate. although you've been very beneficiant to pay for each thing, you deserved a thanks a minimum of. Did she thanks? It would not of damage for her to furnish you a thanks kiss. i imagine you've been the only out of line with the help of telling her what try to be 'entitled' to because you paid for each thing, that would make a woman sense terrible. and she or he would not precisely ought to in common words throw herself at you in common words because you probably did pay for each thing. provide her a probability for a second date, the second one and nil.33 date are frequently the most acceptable or maximum promising. after all you suggested it replaced into the first date you've been on in per chance 8-10 years, your somewhat rusty.
2016-11-01 22:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by derival 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are bisexual that's your choice, it would be kind of rude to come out and ask her if she is a dude or a girl, if u have that much concerns though, hold off with the sex until u get to know who she really is...only then will u be able to figure out whether or not you want the relationship to continue...good luck
2006-07-12 13:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask her just dont come through and ask her are you a male or a female have a talk and something like i liked you for a long time and i want a nother chance but i am scared that you may be a male
(thats how nice it get)
2006-07-12 12:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Regina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should "check" first (down there) and then decide for yourself. If you're a dude, you should not be doing dudes. Geesh, didn't you learn anything in school.??
2006-07-12 12:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like "her" and it doesnt bother u that "she" has a male anatomy then what the hell are you waiting for go after her
2006-07-12 13:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can if your straight but if you swing that way then yeah go for it but use a condom
2006-07-12 13:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by SoooMad07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so! But if you always wanted to be with a she/him, i would have to say "GO FOR IT" follow your heart.
2006-07-12 12:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by KeelaB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. keep an open mind. im not gay. but some of them aint bad looking.
2006-07-12 13:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋