My wife cheated on me a year ago. I've spent the last year cheating on her, abusing her, drinking, God, church but nothing is working. I love her and I really want our marriage to work out but I cant seem to get these thoughts of what she did out of my head. I want to know what can I do to get back to loving her like i did before she cheated. How do I go day to day without the thoughts of what she did creeping into my mind. How do i erase these thoughts and feelings. I know she loves me and I can see that she's really trying to make it better and I want to also but these thoughts haunt me. I want the ghosts of the past to go away. what can i do to get rid of this in my head. How do i fix these issues. I want to forget it, to let it go. She has the same feelings because i cheated on her several times afterwards. I lied to her while it was going on. She knows about it all now and is dealing with the thoughts and yet she loves me more than ever and i can tell but i still have the feelings
2006-06-16
04:32:17
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jerry
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Marriage & Divorce