i really like this guy. he is a genuin person really kind and nice. i know he likes me 2 coz he asked me out ages ago but i said no coz i didnt like him at the time.He keeps on staring at me all the time. how do i find out he still likes me? Should i ask him out all my mates think hes really ugly but i know this other side 2 him? plz dont re post with dont listen 2 ur friends because that wont help me soz
2006-06-16 04:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by eleri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at what texting has done to the English language.
What is the point in writing m8tz? Is it so difficult to write mates?
Ask the boy out if it's wut u want 2 do. 4get ur m8tz.
2006-06-16 04:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Munster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself why you said no the first time. In answering the question be very specific. Then ask yourself what has changed to make you rethink your original decision. Are the reasons for the change good reasons or insubstantial reasons?
If you have good reason for changing your mind about this guy, then go ahead and ask him out, if the reasons seem badly thought through or nothing has changed then you shouldn't ask him out.
If you think that the guy is ok looking or that his personality outweighs his lack of good looks then you should go out with him no matter what your friends say. If they are true friends then they won't reject you and will listen to your reasons for going out with him. If they are 'hangers-on', you will soon know because they will leave. What's more important to you, being with a potential lover or keeping false friends?
I repeat, this a decision for you to make as an individual. Think it through, carefully.
2006-06-16 11:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out...don't listen 2 wot ur mates say or think if u want him then go 4 it. But u shouldn't judge a person by wot they look like. If he treats u nice and has respect 4 u and u both get along fine then thats all that matters. Its the inner beauty that counts!!
2006-06-16 12:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bulldog 2nd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to him and see if there is anything between you. Forget the ugly comments, trust me, we all get ugly sooner or later and I would rather be with someone ugly and fine on the inside than some hunk who thinks he is so much better than everyone. Don't judge a book by it's cover. If you don't go for it you will always wonder what might have been. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-06-23 08:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Vivreici 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty fades but the heart , spirit and mind only have the potential to get better. When it comes to a matter of the heart. It's your choice. If the people you associate with don't approve. Then you should ask yourself .Are these the people I want to take advice from? Sounds like they pretty immature to me.
2006-06-16 11:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by wiseone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mad innit, why do we worry what our friends think?? Just remember your friends wont be with you for life but your partner may well be and your happiness is. Don't miss out on what could be a good thing. If you see each other quite often then just flirt and spend more time closer to him, put your attention on him and soon it will become apparent to him that your expressing interest and he'll soon respond to you. Good luck, hope it works out.
2006-06-16 11:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by amy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the only reason you wont ask him out is because your mates think he's ugly then you should be ashamed of yourself. Why do you care so much about what they think? i'll bet your friends are no angelina jolies themselves! Who are they to judge someone by their appearance. I agree with the person who says that you are too young to be dating if this is how you go about it. (Plus remember that the ugly ducklings in school usually turn out to be damn fine!)
2006-06-16 11:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Showaddywaddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because you're too young and immature to be dating if you judge a person on their looks.
Please use correct English. Text style is okay on the mobile. But on a forum such as this it's so lame and lazy.
2006-06-16 11:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day you have to pick some person to spend the rest of your life with. Is it going to be one of your mates or some guy outside the group? If you answered some guy outside the group then ask him out. It's your life, not theirs that you have to be happy about.
2006-06-16 11:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what they think, its what you think, this lad must still like you, he wont just not like someone, i say go for it, you will become a better person if you can see the real deep attraction, really its not what ur mates think, its not for them to decide, follow ur heart
hope it helps
2006-06-16 11:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by me-jus-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋