I usually have a thousand things floating thru my head....
What am I gonna wear tomorrow?
What the heck is that on the ceiling? etc..
What about you?
2006-06-16 04:32:58 · 56 answers · asked by *Summer*Twyla* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, I agree the ceiling is a good one.
Or worrying about making noise.
Or wondering when the hell this will be over and if not what can I do to speed things up.
2006-06-16 04:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by denialsparks 3 · 5⤊ 7⤋
I can totally emphasize with you because 95% of the time i am the same way........am there in body but no in mind!My mind is wondering about many things if i am not enjoying sex with the one i am with,from what will i have for supper,to my ex bf's,to ohh my god why does a man have to be so hairy'lmao',etc.etc.etc.........!If you're not thinking about how great it is and about pleasing him and him pleasing you then you are not really into it,you are just they to let him gets his thrills which i does many times! Most times i am just lying there and he is right into it, i am there like *** already i have other things to do'lol!{Talk about ruining the moment!!} My best advice for you is to try a new partner and see if that's the problem ........maybe you are just not in love with the one you are with anymore therefore the sex life died with your love for him. I think i am in the same kinda situation right now as well, so i know what i am talking about'lol'!!!!!!
2006-06-16 04:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I get random thoughts as well. Most of the time I'm really into it. But when my husband decides he wants some and I wasn't really in the mood, but not enough to say no I find myself letting my thoughts wander. "What's the cat doing? Is she watching us?" "Did I turn on the dishwasher?" "Should I sleep in tomorrow?" (It's bad too, because I still make noise so my husband doesn't think I'm out of it. Although most of the time he can tell.)
When I find I'm not thinking about what's happening I try really hard to get back into it. Most of the time I coax my husband to my horny spots. Like I said most of the time he can tell when I'm just not into it and he automatically goes for them. It works most of the time. Sometimes I don't worry about it, let him have at it and enjoy the obligatory cuddles afterwards.
2006-06-16 04:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about the moment...How it feels, How I feel...I think about the impending orgasms! And if I was thinking about random stuff like that, that would mean he's not doing it right and I would correct him to make it so I was enjoying it cause having sex, without actually getting anything out of it is lame...
and not worth my time...
2006-06-16 04:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sinfully~Exquisite~Stalking~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only think about what I can do to make my partner feel fantastic. He usually tries really hard to make it last, but some of the things I do makes him get off quick. He feels bad about it, but I feel great because I know he really enjoyed it.
2006-06-16 04:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by monroebtm2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I usually don't think about anything other than what we are doing. " I wont go into detail, though...... Stop thinking about the boring stuff you mentioned and get into what you are doing, you will enjoy it sooo much more..... Let loose and relax and have fun, OMG, you should not be thinking about ,"what is on the ceiling", something is not right there...... Relax and have fun for crying out loud............
2006-06-16 04:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Rio ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be having good sex. Because I can't say I have a thought in my mind besides what other positions I want to do with him to make it better for both of us.
2006-06-16 04:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking that then I feel bad for whoever you are having sex with because it is apparent that he isn't putting it down the way he should be. When you are doing it right then all she should be thinking about is damn this feels good!
2006-06-16 04:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
ceiling is soooo true-i keep saying-i gotta dust that fan off, i thought i was only one-i asked friend-she is a ditz anyway, she said nothing, sometimes i get into it and think of nothing-but i agree-its wierd. Ever think of other guy? i KNOW thats what question means right? yea-i do too sometimes
we are bad-
2006-06-16 04:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good it feels is usually my focus, and trying to make sure I get my wife off before I finish.
2006-06-16 04:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first what can I do to make it awesome for her. Then I try to think about sports, cars, sportscars ...anything to keep my mind off of sex, don't want it to be over too soon, ya know.
2006-06-16 04:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋