I got with my boyfriend only a month ago, and was over at his house the other night and found condom wrapers. I know there not from us and hes swears they have been there a while. Are men really that lazy that they cant throw a wrapper away or is he lieing?
2006-06-16 04:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by little_angel_in_eugene 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The condoms were open and just the wrappers were to be found
2006-06-16 04:44:13 · update #1
He does keep a dirty house thats for sure.
2006-06-16 04:50:25 · update #2
he could be lazy and lying
2006-06-16 04:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying.
Look at the rest of the house, does he keep a messy house/room? If the rest of the house is clean (I don't mean SPOTLESS.. but clean enough for guests / living) but you found the wrappers.. girl, he's lying to your face. And if you stick around, he'll keep lying to you, and he'll keep cheating on you.
2006-06-16 11:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by mytrollinid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were at his house and you found the???? Who's could the be aside from his?? I would say that seeing that and how he reacted rasies a very big red flag. Talk to him about it and get an answer out of him. If you feel like he's lying then I would say leave him.
2006-06-16 11:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by SKully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on if they were open or not. if they were open and used then honey get out of there wuick could they have been form the night before. if they were not open and just there laying around, then give him the benefit of a boubt since it has only been a month between you to. it's a bad way to start out especillay if you know they didnt come from you but give him the opportunity to redeem himself but if it happens again....please be on the first thing smoking out of there!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 11:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, men can have sex for sex, it is definately not our nature to cheat. I never had the urge to cheat on my girlfriend when I went out with her, We never had sex, does that mean I do not like sex? Certainly not. Telling women it is in men's nature to cheat so you should let it slide is stupid. Although I will admit anymore more of us men are being brainwashed into thinking cheating is in our nature, and that men have sex for pleasure and not love.
That is only true in some men, but which men are not out for just sex is hard to differentiate between them.
Now to answer the question, If you cannot trust him, then dump him. What is a relationship without trust?
More than likely he is probably going to try to have sex with you and move on.
2006-06-16 11:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not telling the truth. He probably will continue to cheat because it's our nature. Him having sex with another girl doesn't mean he likes you any less. Given the opportunity men will generally cheat in relationships but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you he just likes sex. Men can can have sex for sex sakes beacuse we are inharently sluts.
2006-06-16 11:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty suspicious of that one if I were you. Sounds like an excuse. I would keep my eyes and ears open if I were you
Either way is bad. Either he is cheating or really messy.
2006-06-16 11:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...no he's lying. They've been there for awhile? Ew that's disgusting. No guys are that lazy.
2006-06-16 11:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying. No guy would leave that sitting around. Dump him fast.
2006-06-16 11:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. I dunno. were they opened? or were they just in the package? cuz if they were opened that's just messed up! dump him!!
2006-06-16 11:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Spazzmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋