My husband and I are married for 9 years and have 2 kids. The last 4 years had been a nightmare, but we made it through. He had issues with his family which he took it out on me. The turning point was when I finally fought back. I admit I am a person of extremes - all or nothing. I thought things were worked out and okay, now (after a year) he says he doesn't know if he can forgive everyone involved, me and him included and doesn't know if he loves me. I say you either love someone and want to spend the rest of your lives together or you don't. He claims love is not that simple.
We made it through h*ll and now we can't seem to make it through the day-to-day. I feel petty for sticking out the rough patch and being willing to give up now. I am afraid I will regret it if I leave, but am also afraid he is staying for the wrong reasons.
2006-06-16
07:10:41
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Jill M
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Marriage & Divorce