my friend and i sit on each others lap, drink from the same cup, say i love you and kiss each other on the cheek when were saying bye?? Were both girls but were both straight. A lot of people do that at my school, but do you think its weird??
2006-06-16 07:13:47 · 32 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think it's weird. In all reality, you shouldn't let what others think bother you, whatever feels comfortable for you. Tell other people to mind their own business or maybe they're just jealous.
2006-06-16 07:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by moss03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you guys aren't weird. Girls do stuff like that all the time (i.e. sleeping in the same bed with each other, etc.). Now if you see two boys doing that then "Houston, we have a problem".
2006-06-16 07:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by stephete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, except for sitting on each others lap i do the same thing with my friends and mostly everybody else does that too. i'm pretty sure it's normal but if your uncomfortable doing it then dont do it.
2006-06-16 07:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a girl... my sister and i are kinda close like that. i mean we'll share cups and stuff.
my friend (who is a girl) and i say i love you, and we both mean it in a straight way.
i don't think it's weird. i mean i might not do it in public just cause everyone is so messed up and i wouldn't want people thinking that about me, but it's nautral to want to be close to the people you love.
2006-06-16 07:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by miss chemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. some countries are just more accepting of physical closeness of girlfriends. america is just weird for frowning on it. unless it is crossing into the lesbian territory = its more than fine. Enjoy the closeness you have with your friend and dont even worry about it looking silly to others
2006-06-16 07:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wierd about it. My girlfriends sit on my lap and drink after me as well. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-06-16 07:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all but some people may mistake your affection for something it is not. You are smart enough to know when a line is crossed.
2006-06-16 07:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No itz not weird itz jus a way of saying dat u will be dere for them if they need u...itz bringin ur relationship closer together...dont u think?
2006-06-16 07:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, times have changed since I was in school. I would have thought it weird, but reading everyone else's response, guess it's not :-)
2006-06-16 07:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure her intentions aren't more than yours.she could feel stronger in differant ways. if it stays to where you're both compfortable then why would it be weird
2006-06-16 07:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋