My now Ex-husband left me on Jan. 21 of this year, my Divorce became final on May 8, of this year. I loved this man dearly, but because he had hurt me so much in the past( use to be vary abusive, and controlling....and is an alcoholic,drug abuser...oh, and had left me several times before) I didn't take him back when he asked me to back in March. Now I regret that decision some, because I really loved this man, and had never planed on getting a divorce ( I didn't even have a lawyer, he filed). Now I am divorced, and trying to start over again (I have even met some one)but I worrie that I may not be over my Ex completly yet, I just need to know if the pain of losing him will go away soon, if I will stop crying ever time I think of him, and our life together. Please I need some help I don't want to mess up my new relationship ( this guy is a great guy, and I can see a future with him), but first I have to let go of my past, I know. Thanks for any help.
2006-06-11
17:06:41
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brandy
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