I'm too shy specially If there's a guy around..well ,recently i got to know some one and I really like him but whenever he talks to me my face goes red,hands shake,I hesitate and laughs nervouslly..By doing so, I gave the wrong impression..He thinks I'm rejecting him..plz tell me what to do??I don't wanna lose him
2006-06-11 17:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're probably not shy...just nervous...and that's natural. Different people react differently to uncomfortable situations. Remember that he's probably nervous too. Don't worry so much about what he MAY or MAY NOT be thinking... You'll get better at this with time...we all do!
2006-06-11 17:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can get rid of shyness without mind altering chemicals(drugs, alcohol). I don't suggest using those either. I'm naturally a pretty shy guy, but in high school I took drama and you learn to get over that in drama.
To get rid of the nervousness, however, you have to play tricks on your mind, in a sense. Just remember that this is only one guy, and even if you lose him there'll be plenty more coming along. If you can convince yourself of this, then you may be able to relax.
And just do that. Whenever he comes around, just focus on relaxing, don't focus on him. Eventually you'll find relaxing comes a little more naturally, and then you can focus on the guy.
Like I said, you can't get over shyness without lots of what I like to call "introvert's trauma." I had that, and it helped. But nervousness you can get over, but it takes work.
Also you could just try telling him you like him.
2006-06-11 17:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gavind R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to more guys and you'll build up the confidence. Next time you see a nice guy anywhere, just say hi as you're walking by. Practice makes perfect.
2006-06-11 17:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember he's a regular person just like you. He's not perfect, just got to remember he has faults like everyone else no matter what he might look like. So next time just try to be yourself like when your talking to one of your friends. It might be hard at first but the more you talk to him and realize he's just like everyone else it will get better. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-11 17:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think you give him the wrong impression, As long as your smiling, you should know that you enjoy being around him.
2006-06-11 17:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy. sounds hard, but is really simple. take a chance. if hes worth it, you'll take a chance and be confident in yourself and have fun.
2006-06-11 17:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by shaggydude24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember he is self conscious too.
2006-06-11 17:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk, try talking to me on AIM, and see if it helps?
2006-06-11 17:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by thehangtimefed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋