I'm 25 and I have it bad for a guy twice my age...any advice?
2006-06-11 17:02:06 · 4 answers · asked by BB 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 25 and have discovered that most guys my age aren't mature enough for a relationship. I am engaged to a guy that is 9 years older than me and we have a wonderful relationship. Sometimes older is better.
2006-06-11 17:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Paige M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a man 16 + years older than me. Don't do it. The first few years are fun and ok, but then he gets old and you are still young. I have to do everything...he does nothing because age is crippling him up and he is retired and feels like he has to do nothing. It doesn't even bother him that I am ready to collapse. I have to do all the housework, yard work, snow shovelling, grass cutting, bill paying, shopping, etc. He won't go out at all and we have no life. He used to feel like a husband, then it got to he felt like my dad, and now it feels like he is my grampa. The fun part fades quickly...stick to someone closer to your own age. When you are 50 he will be 75!!!
2006-06-11 17:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by NightHowler 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is your life...make a choice and stick to it...don't allow other people to make that choice for you, this is your journey and along that journey you will learn about many things, make so good choices, make some bad choices, but in the end you know that you did it your way...I would go for it if I felt strong feelings like that...At least he has probably finish playing all those games younger guys play and will probably treat you like a queen...
2006-06-11 17:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jade J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself and to him then all will be well
2006-06-11 17:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋