I have a best friend who I like a lot, how do i know if he feels the same way for me without asking him?

Question

I met this guy at school, and we have become really good friends, but I really like him and sometimes he sends me mixed signs but has never said that he likes me. We call each other when we need each other, but we really dont go places. I would like for our friendship to become a little more without telling him how I feel, what should I do?

Answer 1

I know you dont want to tell him but its the mature thing to do.. rather then playing games just ask how he feels about going out~
if he says no laugh it off if he says yes then you and him will be together

Answer 2

When it comes to that point, you honestly have to make a decision whether or not a romantic relationship is worth it. On one hand, you're great friends from what I've read. This friendship obviously means something to you and you don't want it to disappear. On the other hand, if he feels the same as you, you'll probably have a great relationship because you know each other well and care about each other. If he doesn't feel that way and you tell him, chances are your friendship will be over more or less. You'll both feel pretty awkward.

You have to decide what you want more. You have to tell him how you feel if you want him. Unless he magically feels the same way and does it first, but don't count on that happening if it already hasn't.

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Making him jealous is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Say he does have feelings for you, but he's shy about it. There's no better way to make him suppress his feelings for you than to see or talk about other guys. Do it too much and he's over you.

Answer 3

Honestly I had this problem with a girl.... Keep up the conversation and try and go to more places together/ see eachother in person more often... Then just come out and tell him and he will feel the same if he hasnt told you already by then... that feeling sucks that your having rite now i know from experienced but once you tell him its an amazing feeling.. make sure you see him in person maybe 4-5 more times... go with him to the Pet Store trust me itll work

Answer 4

Ur just gonna have to ask. Thats the aure way of knowing. Mixed signal can be confusing if not annoying. So u have to ask him how he really feels about u, because sometimes u get the feeling he likes u just a little more then friends

Answer 5

I was like this with my best friend as well. I finally got the courage up and told him how I felt...We decided it would be best to just remain friends, and I actually think it was the best thing for us. I could never lose him as a friend. 2 years later, we are still really close friends, and he is getting married next weekend. I'm really happy for him!

You will need to just let him know your feelings. No matter what the outcome, you will feel better for doing it - a weight will be lifted off your shoulders. Just tell him!

Answer 6

Plan a special Friday night with just the two of you and go bowling or something. You and him might start to relize how much fun you have together. Then things might pick up from there.

Answer 7

Why don't u try making him jealous?Well, it's kinda risky using this plan, but u should try this:try to hang out with another guy.Talk a lot to that guy in front of the guy that you liked. If the guy that you like askes u if you're dating that guy.He's jealous and that proves that he likes u too!!!!

Answer 8

Let's see, ESP, ask the G-ds...

Come on, just tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way. There is no way to read his mind. The only other thing you could do is ask his friends discreetly if he has told them anything regarding you.

Answer 9

Call Spock,use the Volcan mind meld.You can`t read people`s minds you need to ask him or risk being hurt!

Answer 10

nice questions, but i know somebody that feels about me like that. but i just not into them, best thing to do is always be there for them and oneday just one day when its right, but always in the end its show come out just right.