I feel like crap - I was stupid a few years ago and co-signed a loan for was was then my fiancee. Now I am happily married to someone else, but the ex (of course) bailed on the loan and I got stuck with it in order to save my very good credit rating.
My husband now wants to pay this loan off - but he cut up all my credit cards and now we share all our banking. I trust my husband with this, but I just feel so weird. I have full access to our account, but I feel funny about spending money from it. I don't know if I can buy anything for myself or not. I also have to ask if I can use the credit card, and I haven't - just too upsetting for me. I totally feel like I've lost all my independance, but I'm happy he delt with my "a..hole" loan. What should I do?
2006-11-06
11:06:57
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emmyfair
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