I don't know. I always happenes that the more I like a guy the quicklier he wan't to run away! I can't understand why! All the other men like me a lot no matter how I treat them! To my own oppinion I treat those I don't like awful! I mean if they are in need I help them of course but if they just want to meet, I always say no, I behave really cold! Because of course I don't want them into my life! With those I like it's a total difference! I do everything for them! People open their mouthes when they see what things I do!.. I see a big treasure in every person I like even if in my mind I think that all the people equaly deserve to be loved. Well, so no matter how funny and beautifull I am those I like just run away one after another! Those I don't stay All by me! I have bought a book about how to behave with men and that we have to stay cold. I tried a bit. He got more attracted to me, the one who ra away before, but then I started again and he ran away again! I just can't be cold the one I love! How can I? When I behave so I feel like I am lieing and that it is not a true me! Because a true me is the one who does everything, and forgives everything. Please help me! Tell me what should I do! When I stay cold even those I like like me back, but in that case I feel that something good (that thing about willing to do everything) inside of me is dieing. It is a very hard feeling, like if you become a machine. Then once I open myself and do everything I want I feel free and like something hard has fallenof my shoulders. But the same moment guys first become happy and then run away. Well, tell me please what do you think I should do? :)
I thank you all very much! And lately I have become friends with another girl who is the same as me so you will help not only me!
Have a great day you all! And may all your problems go away!
Maria
2007-09-20
11:18:46
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