I split up with my husband of 17 years at the beginning of October and at first because of the hurt he'd been causing me it felt like a relief and I didn't want him back. But then I found out he'd been seeing another woman since August. The same woman he had an affair with 2 and a half years ago.
I confronted him about this and he explained that he'd just been talking to her about the issues in our marriage back in August but hadn't started seeing her until after we split. He also said that it was me he loved (as he'd been telling me since shortly after we split) and wanted to try to work things out with me. He sounded so sincere and I do love him (although I felt happier without him) so I decided to commit to working things out. That was last Friday.
Yesterday he told me he wasn't sure anymore, that he still had feelings for the other woman and missed her. I've told him that he needs to sort out what he wants, but I feel so hurt. How can he love me and her at the same time?
2007-12-28
04:16:56
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Louise H
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Marriage & Divorce