Okay, here's some details: he waltzed in one Fri night and announced he was "leaving the relationship." After I picked my jaw up off the floor, he left and started moving his stuff out of the house that weekend. That was March 2004. Oct would've been our 19th anniversary. I'll call him "Glen."
Now it's almost 2008 and I still miss him. I'm in another relationship with an incredible man, James. He and I are really more compatable than Glen and I were. I'm happy and doing well except that I'm very in touch with a part of me that still misses Glen.
Of course I would never go back to Glen, not even if he asked me. But I some days I miss him all day long, and have these stinkin sweet dreams about him at night.
I'm afraid I'm not being "really present" to my current relationship because this part of me can't let go of my ex. Should I be completely over him by now, i.e. no poignant dreams at night and no achy feeling in my heart when I think about him?
2007-12-14
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