I'm 24 and she is 29. She is my first girlfriend, and I've known her for about 4 years. About 6 months ago, she started to talk about marriage and then it just kinda advanced from there...Last night, she asked me very seriously when I was going to marry her.
I'm not ready right now, I mean I even need another year and half untill I finish college, because I'm living with my parents and have no money. But she doesn't really seem to care about that. She just wants to marry me, just so that we are married. She said that I can keep living with my parents and everything would be normal as if we were not married until I finish school and ready to really start a new life with her.
My parents don't know about this, but I've always known that my parents don't approve of me marrying her, even though they say she is nice. Her parents love me, and I think are also pushing her to marry me. I don't want to lose her, but how do I tell her I'm not ready?
2007-11-21
08:31:26
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