I've been married to him for two years.
I feel trapped and ashamed that my husband hits me.
When I met him he was so gentle and kind...now i feel as if I have done something to change his character or mood.
He has been previously married and has children from this relationship. I know it hasn't been a difficult adjustment for everyone, as I'm orginally from Europe and left my family and my career behind to come to the states to be with him. It was very stressful for me at first...and also for his children.
I think it has taken a toll him, as he has told me on a few occasions that he still has wounds from his previous marriage and because i'm 15 years younger i will never understand the reltaionship he has with his ex and his children. this hurts me as i would like to be there for him, i know i won't undertand everything, i haven't been married and i don't have children. but i can listen. i want him to stop hiting me and kicking me for reasons he won't express in words.
2007-10-28
07:25:52
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Katinka
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Marriage & Divorce