I am not married but am involved with someone who is. (Please no lectures on the wrongness of affairs, etc etc). She has no plans to leave her spouse, which is fine as she obviously is unfaithful- which is not my fault. She actually initiated our relationship. This is not her first affair. She claims she loves her partner and is perfectly happy with them - I have asked her how she can cheat on him if she "loves" him and her response is always "I don't know" or she gets into how much she likes me.
Now keep in mind - I have never cheated on my significant other (when I've been involved, which I currently am not). And yes, I understand that doesn't make this situation "OK". Now if I become involved in a relationship with someone - I will end it with her. I do not condone cheating. This question isn't about me - I am just confused as to the entire situation. Has anyone else been in HER shoes?? I am interested in input - NOT in comments condeming affairs - that's already understood.
2007-09-17
14:09:22
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Marriage & Divorce