It doesn't matter what I ask this employee to do, another way of doing the task is suggested. I'm not exaggerating when I say, "without fail" this is the case. I am not rude in my response and often ask this employee what is the reasoning behind their suggestion and how is it better? I listen and then make a final decision. Sometimes I have taken the suggestion and sometimes I haven't. On occasion the employee who is taller than I, will intently enter "my space"...not alot, but somewhat, to question a final decision. There is an "air" of anger and "how could you be so stupid"? I continue to hold my ground without giving the impression, I'm ruffled. This employee is a relative of a friend and they are thrilled this employee would have the opportunity for this experience; however, it is "wearing" to have the constant challenge. Does anyone know of a "disability" or personality disorder that is associated with this kind of pronounced behavior?
2007-05-24
23:32:56
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lindakflowers
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Mental Health