This is a little personal, so please don't take offense.My husband and I have been married for 7 years now.I can't reach orgasm through penetration, I seem to only reach it with oral stimulation.We are not a typically married couple in the fact that once we married, sex stopped.We usually interact at least 5 times a week if not more.My problem is I cant get mine the normal way,so I kind of expect my spouse to do what is nessissary to please me (oral).He is a slacker in this department he says because I don't perform oral on him, and I usually don't unless I know I am going to be pleased which is usually only once a week compared to his 5-7 orgasms a week. I feel like I give the other up, which lets him reach his orgasm (he can't reach orgasm through oral).Am I wrong?I'm not a big fan of giving oral, but probably could be more enthusiastic if my needs were being met more.What can I say to husband to get my point across?Are toys the answer to make it better for me or should he step up?
2007-05-03
02:32:35
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LISA R
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Marriage & Divorce