My girlfriend and I, her boyfriend, are becoming more sexual, and frottage, the act commonly known as dry humping, has become an activity that we partake in. We are both young, and thusly, inexperienced and without superior sexual knowledge.
Her hymen has been intact for her entire life, and she has never been much as curious to touch herself, nor has she used a tampon, ergo, making her hymen more suseptible to damage by any contact made to it. (I presume,after all, it is inelastic due to inactivity, making damage done to it simpler)
Whilst both of us clothed, she and I were kissing, and genital to genital stimulus occured, as in the past, and we are both gentle lovers, yet this evening she told me...
"I was bleeding"...
when she returned home and went to the bathroom.
She speaks of pain similar to ovulation, a bit of swelling. She had her menstrual cycle the previous week, eliminating that possiblity.
She spoke of a mucous like material within the fluids, and we concluded that hymen damage has taken place. Perhaps it no longer is in existence at all.
I am particularly concerned about her mental well being. I do not wish for her to fear intimacy, nor be traumatised by these circumstances that sexual activity is painful. She's a magnificant girl, and I do not want her to be afraid of herself, nor I.
Shall her pains subside quickly?
If they do not, what does this indicate?
What of her sexual views?
What can I, or should I, do to comfort her?
...Is her hymen truly broken? Is this damage..or annihilation?
I feel dreadful knowing that I've caused her any pain, and I wish to be informed somehow of what actions I should take, what she should take, if this changes her cleansing routine, sexual desires, or any thing else that I may or may not have mentioned in the former.
Thank you very much for reading(presuming, of course, you truly have). ^_^
2007-04-29
18:24:56
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