I've been married for a number of years. I love my wife, we have a happy and successful marriage, and I would not cheat on her.
However, lately I've had a terrible crush on someone I see during my weekly routine. She pretty flirtatious... whether that has to do with genuine interest, or whether it's just because I'm already taken and therefore it's "safe" to flirt with me. I invite her to lunch occasionally, and I flirt back with her as well... it's fun and feels good. Nothing beyond that though, nothing physical.
I'm in my 30's now, working on getting pregnant with our first child... so I'm completely aware that there's a simple "mid-life crisis" side to this. Please don't beat me up with a lot of harsh judgment... I'm not a bad husband or bad person, and I don't want a full-blown affair with anybody. I'm just wondering if these kinds of feelings are normal... at what point they do become a problem... and what's the best way to deal with them when they reach that point?
2007-04-26
09:19:36
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Steve
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Marriage & Divorce