I visited an out-of-town bridesmaid and met her boyfriend. The guy is a real creep, he seems devious, malicious, demeaning, aggressive, etc. He made my fiance and I so uncomfortable that we left after only being there for an hour! Bottom line is this guy is not allowed at our wedding, my fiance said so, and I agreed last night. I WILL NOT have my guests (especially the guests who would share a table) made to feel that uncomfortable for anyone...not even a very close friend who I did ask to be a bridesmaid!
So my question is...do I tell my friend that he is not allowed now? or do I wait until closer to the wedding (no need to stir a pot now if she isnt even going to be with him by the wedding)?
Side notes:
1. They have only been together for about 6months, but live together and "love" each other.
2. My wedding is in June 2008
3. I would tell her before she paid a dime for anything (I think we will buy bridesmaid dresses in Jan (there is a 30% off sale at a local store)
2007-03-24
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