For the past 14 months I have done nothing but think about my situation with my husband and its tearing me apart. When I caught him cheating after 19 years of marriage, he said it was not what I thought, didn't mean a thing etc., but he was planning to leave the marriage anyway as he was not the marrying kind, that he wanted to take risks in life, that he had never done something just for himself and had always had to compromise. He left the house and now lives in an apartment, and I really believe that the other woman is no longer in his life. He still comes back to our house for 3 or 4 days of the week and stays over and our life continues as if we were married, but when I mention about him coming back or why he stays away he wont answer any of my questions.
I am thinking that perhaps he used me from the start, for financial reasons, but would a man use someone for 19 years? He is 42 and I am 54 and we have a daughter of 17. Why does he still come back if he wants freedom?
2007-02-28
01:10:45
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Nancy S
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Marriage & Divorce