Okay, so here is the deal. My bf and I have been together for over a year, but won't discuss marriage without an argument starting. He tells me "yes i want to marry you..someday when it's right" I am not asking to set a date, just trying to ask him what we need to do in order to start going towards that. I know he is not cheating or anything like that, but he gets very angry when i bring up the subject of getting married. He tells me that "knowing he wants to marry me someday should be enough..." but all it does is tease me in a way. He is a few years older than I am, well quite a bit older and i'm still young, he has made several comments about how someone in his family was with their husband 12 years before they got married...which dosent offer much hope for me. He seems too "content" being stuck in neutral....he wont even consider moving in together...(not for any moral reason) he's not opposed to living together but he just wont do it.. please help! what should i do?......
2007-02-18
03:10:54
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