I have a 3 year old son to my ex-partner,unfortunately after 12 months of being apart he is taking me to court as he wants parental responsibilty.Now I have my doubts and fears because for 5 years of being together i was a victim of domestic violence, and my son had witnessed this on a number of occasions. My Ex has a history of violence(and a very bad one at that) and I would be absolutely devastated if the court allowed him this responsibilty.He was arrested last year for his actions against me but as he was so controlling over me I was forced to sign a letter in which he typed and sent to the courts.He was fined £50 and received a conditional charge for 2 years.Now if the court allowed this access I would be constantly worried for my son's safety. The only time he mentions his dad is when he tells me that his daddy used to smack his bottom and that it hurt. So he used to try and hide. I assume this took place when I was at work. So am I being selfish in denying my son his father?
2007-01-21
21:36:26
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Renee
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Toddler & Preschooler