I am 19 yrs old, my husband 23. Been married 8 mnths, Im pregnant with our second baby. I have always wanted to own a house and one day want to save saving for a deposit, my husband flat out says he doesnt want to buy a house as it means he has to work fulltime and he never wants to, says he wants to spend all his time with his kids because he has a pension and doesnt want to loose it. His parents encourage him to stay on the pension and only work 15 hrs a wk and if he does we will never buy a house, I want to take my kids travelling to see places and he doesnt want to. We just have such different dreams and its really causing problems, Im not scared to work fulltime for the things I want as well as seeing my kids as much as possible and he wants at least 4 kids, I want max 3. Im ready to break up as he doesnt encourage what I want but I really dont want our kids to grow up with their parents apart, what do you think?
2007-01-04
19:17:43
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Marriage & Divorce