I started going out with a girl about 3 weeks ago. Right before we started going out, she told me she was a cutter. You see, her dad tried to commit suicide, then the parents got divorced, they were forclosed upon, and now a girl from her school and grade is probably gonna buy the house. Before we started dating, she said she'd stopped because I told her it hurt me too much, and it did, I get very attached to my friends. Yesterday, I saw three new scars on her hand, when I saw them I started to cry, and we cried togather for about 10 minutes. She said she was so sorry, and she couldn't help it. Today she emailed me saying most cutters didn't stop(making excuses). The thing is I love her. How can she love me if she has to take out her depression on herself, I feel like it's my fault. If I was a better boyfriend I'd have helped her stop totally. I don't know what to do or how to approach her about it and make her stop. I can't tell her it tears my heart when she does it, what do I do?
2006-12-30
15:14:49
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Kaleb
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