After 18 years of marriage, my wife and I had a very tough year. For about 6 months, my wife was drinking excessively several times per week, staying up inside our house very late (2-4am) and we fought (verbally) often during this period.
One night about 2-3am after a long fight, my wife went to the couch and passed out. I was mad and couldn't sleep anymore and had to go to work in the morning. I got up went to the couch and started taking off her clothes to have sex. Just for fairness....I knew she wouldn't want me doing this, but I knew she was too drunk to resist much.
In the middle of having sex she looked up at me, got really mad and told me to get off her. I got off her when she said this, no physical force was used to keep going.
It has been 6 months since this happened and she is mad and tells me I raped her. I don't agree. I am not saying I didn't do something wrong, but I do not think this is considered rape.
What do you think?
2006-12-11
01:53:36
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Marriage & Divorce