Me & 2 friends have a 'crisis' meeting with another of our friends tonight. We're of a group of about 30, & everyone else has had enough of her. She lies, she stirs, she b.tches behind peoples backs, & does nothing but whinge and moan. You might think we're crazy, but she suffers from depression which is why we want to try and tell her she's aliennating herself. None of our friends want her to come to their NYE party, and we have to tell her and tell her why. She is nearly 40 years old and we've only known her for 6 months, and she has no other friends. I don't want to be too harsh to her, but she needs to be told that her behaviour is going to end up in her losing this group of friends too. How do we be supportive to her without coming across mean? It's very tough being friends with someone who is so down all the time about everything, and others will no longer tolerate her. How do we approach this? Thanks in advance...
2006-12-11
20:55:09
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