I am leaving my abusive husband after 13 years. We're 34 . We have a daughter 6, son 4. House is in foreclosure; got upset when I said that I was moving back home with my mom instead of with him to a rented house( he didn't pay even though he could afford it, net pay $980 a week). He'll act a fool regardless, no matter what I do to please him, it's never enough. I get called names, personal items thrown away( threw away clothes and boots that he bought for me), screamed at in my face; spitting, criticized , everything thrown in my face, choked 3 times( several years ago), silent treatment for weeks , sleeps in the basement unless he wants sex; it goes on. Feeling guilty I suggested a legal separation while continuing counseling( didn't work for him, I still go). He said no, he wants it over and done with. He is so nonchalant about this and I care for him & know I'm doing the right thing. He says to find someone else to love & cherish me cause he don't. How to let go?
2006-12-10
21:03:56
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