My husband was brought up surrounded by p.orn & encouraged by his mother to read it as she says it proved to her that her son wasn't gay??? I knew about the p.orn before we got married but felt it was his past & only right I should leave it where it belonged..thinking that's what he'd done also...About 2 yrs ago I found out that he'd been hiding p.orn mags & videos underneath my b/r floorboards (my son found them) I also found out he'd been looking at p.orn over the Internet via my PC.
I felt totally betrayed & hurt, we split up for a wk or so & he begged me to give us another go, I have tried so hard to get over this but what makes it worse is the fact that in the past when I caught him looking at other women while out together, He would then spend an age telling me I was the one with paranoa & I needed help. I did get coucelling but it doesn't seem to have done the trick. Now I feel that I just don't love my husband anymore & don't want to be with him...how can I get through this???
2006-12-08
21:59:16
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Angel Eyes
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Marriage & Divorce