My wife comes from a pretty dysfunctional family history. Basically every woman in her family(mom, grandmother, aunt, sister) has linked up with a dog. Her grandfather and father both have had mutiple children and affairs outside their marriage and hit their wives. She has talked to me about this and said she feels like she was able to break the cycle by acknowleging the pattern and seeking to change it. She also has said that she knows "a man like me" will eventually leave her for someone else, and admitted that at times she tried to sabotage the relationship to avoid getting hurt when I inevitably leave her. Over the last few years I have continuely seen her trying to sabotge our relationship. Whenever we have the slightest disagreement she threatens to leave. These threats have become daily events and it has put me in a constant state of apology and unhappiness. She Will not go to cousiling. My soul can not take my wife telling me everyday she is going to leave me. What do I do?
2006-11-07
22:09:23
·
20 answers
·
asked by
BossHogg R
2
in
Marriage & Divorce