how to come out of it?

Question

iv been in a love affair with a really decent girl and still love her madly. our relationship dint work out and she broke up with me. she was getting married. it was more of my fault and i understand. now she dosent even talk properly and i cant get her of my mind, its been around 3 months now and my love was so strong i dont think i can ever come out of it. please help. also tell me a way to say sorry to her for all i did. i never kept her happy, im a fool.

Answer 1

glad u have the balls to admit u were a fool.

life is about moving on, not holding onto the past.

give ur self time & all will even out.

Answer 2

This is hard, I've been there. You have to just leave it go otherwise your going to, make a fool of yourself, hurt her, hurt yourself more, leave it go, do your penance and suffer. Maybe in time. Join a monastery. Do something but, don't jump into another relationship and use another girl to rebound on, it doesn't work, good luck.

Answer 3

You would eventually get over her.

This is not the time for blame. It doesn't matter if it is your fault or her fault. Especially now that she is getting married or had already married.

Relationship takes 2 to work.

Answer 4

I think you should find another decent girl because your ex- is moving on too and even if you'll apologize to her I think she'll be getting married to the guy anyway...

Answer 5

pls forget this girl think of urself ur parents of ur future wife childrn etc.i dont think u hav 2 tell sorry if u want to do that change urself, bcom better.
thanking you

Answer 6

Sounds like she did the right thing

Answer 7

move on..