I have 3 children, but all three of them belong to different fathers. But why is it when everytime I get pregnant to a guy they leave town or the country, never to be seen again?
2006-11-07 22:09:46 · 9 answers · asked by hotbitch69_xoxo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the majority of men are bastards. take your time to pick a good one it could take a while but there is a good man for everyone out there. and you are extremely lucky to have 3 wonderful children! i wish i could get pregnant any tips?
2006-11-07 22:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by klizy10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very sorry to hear about your luck with men, I have 2 children with number 3 is on the way , with 2 differen fathers, I think your children have choosen you and knew when they were concieved that it would be only you to look after them. They have different father so they have their own idenity they needed something from their father but oviously not for them to be around. Im sure you love your children with all your heart and soul like all mothers and they are special because they are who they are.
I looked at myself as oh why me, when my son was born as I was only 17 and the father to him was a sweetheart until I started to show then he started to beat me nearly killing me many times during my pregnancy, I had a massive lesson to learn and without my son I wouldn't have learnt it.
Do you understand what the lesson you had to learn was? behind everything there is a lesson its apart of life, until you learn that lesson it will keep repeating itself until you learn what you need to. You are the only one who knows the lesson so figure it out and then you can move on and hopefully find the man your ment to be with.
I was lucky as I learnt my lesson quickly and after I figured it out I found my soul mate and we fell pregnant, we woud have split up but it was our daughter that made us fight and realise the potential of our love, we have now just married and are expecting our 2nd child together but its our baby number 3 as he isn't the biological father to my son but he is the only father he knows.
be positive and positive things will come. Make sure your protected until ready to have another baby as you don't want another baby until you find the man you will share your and your kids life with, have hope as he is out there your just not ready to meet him yet, figure out what you have to learn and he will come faster then you can imagion and you'll know when he is the right one.
Best wishes and I hope you don't think this is silly its just you need to have faith in yourself, and you can make anything happen, by you thinking negative you will bring the wrong men into your life, and you have had enough of that, now its time to realise your potential and be happy. You deserve it. We all do.
2006-11-07 22:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by mj_missi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the men r obviously gutless cowards who r 2 scared 2 take resposibility u r a vry strong person 2 raise 3 children on ur own thats a great deal of effort.. well done.. :)
2006-11-07 22:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by dani w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who dont want committment dont want kids, therefore they run.
Maybe you should get on birthcontrol? or make him wear a condom... ever hear od AIDS? or any of the other sexually transmitted diseases? i cant believe how many people do not wear comdoms in this age of 'insert penis and die" duscusting actually....
good luck
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2006-11-07 22:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be that face....
sorry maybe you should think before having children with these men...
2006-11-07 22:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you fall for the wrong men but i'm sure you have great kids-good luck
2006-11-07 23:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they cant cope or maybe you need to talk to them and ask them if they want a baby or maybe they used you
2006-11-07 22:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm men are idiots! is that you in the pic?
2006-11-07 22:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by mummy of 2 boys and a princess x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something wrong with you?
2006-11-07 22:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by zenega p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋