My wife and I split up about 4 weeks ago. We have both come to the conclusion that we still very much love each other, miss each other, and want to be together. But, she wants to wait 6 months. I'm stumped.
She tells me I am the one. She says she wants us to be together more than anything. I feel the same way and tell her lets work it out. But we can't seem to agree on the right method.
She believes that pushing it off for 6 months or so, finishing the divorce, and moving on with our lives (accomplishing our life goals, etc), then come back and see "how we feel" then is the best answer. She says that feels "right".
I, on the other hand, believe the opposite. I think that pushing it off for 6 months, ending the marraige, and "getting on with life" would be the death sentence for the relationship. I believe that if we both truly love each other and truly want to be together, that we should work on it as a couple. Marriage counceling, discussions, compromises, etc. Am I wrong?
2006-11-05
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