My husband hasn't seen or talked to his father in 13 yrs. He explanation to me has been vague(As most explanations with him are!)but he says he has no interest in having a relationship with his father. I made a comment before our wedding 4 yrs ago, about inviting his father, and my mother-n-law told me if I did then she and I were going to have problems. Aparently there are details to the story that I don't know. They have never said he was abusive, so I dont think that is it. My husband has said that he wasn't very involved. I think that it is important for a person to know as much about their family history (tree) as possible and to know as many blood relatives as they can. My daughter has a grandfather that she has never known, and may never know if I dont step in. I doubt this man even knows anything about my husband, so he doesn't know about her. I think she deserves to know all of her biological grandparents. I don't expect my husband to be involved if he doesn't want to be.
2006-10-05
01:00:34
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LittleMermaid
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Other - Family & Relationships