So Ive been dating this girl for a few weeks now and things were kinda slowed because she said she didn't need a boyfriend right now, that she has a lot going on and stuff.And well she really did, so I said Id be there for her.And that whatever happens, happens.Well, on saturday she was like I have to tell you something; I have a boyfriend. And I was like huh? She said she wants to be with me, that she sees herself with me. ANd the guy she has been dating hasn't done anything wrong, she just isn't that into him. She wants to take a break, not from dating persay but from being in a relationship for a lil bit, but then would like to pursue things with me. Putting the trust issues aside, should I
A. Give her an ultimatum of him or me, and allow her, her "me" time?
B. Tell her friends isn't going to be cool for forever, and make her give me an estimate of how slow she wants to take things.
C. See how things pan out
I really like her and don't want to scare her off by pressuing her.
2006-09-24
21:36:28
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