i like one of my friend ... hes very close to me... we share almost everything.. now tht hes gone abroad to study i miss him like craazzyyyy ,,, and im dying for his reply to my mails.... i always think what it might be like in london (thts where he has gone) and always think of whether ill tell him or no about my liking to him when he comes back here..... what do i do?? should i tell him risking my friendship with him?? if he doesnt like me back do u think he will become less of a best friend ...
yes its true we both 1st started talking to each other looking at each others pictures (on hi5)... thats how we got to knw each other in the beginning... we used to always be on text msgs.. and sometimes loong phone conversations..we met.. i made him something when he left for london... now that hes gone hes alwayss on my mind.. hes not come online since long may be thats y i din get a reply to my mail...
2006-09-24 21:36:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for u its love as ur story goes , for him , maybe or maybe , i mean even he maybe in the same dilemma , but someone should take the frst step i think .
as girls r now equal with boys in all aspects , why not u frst give a try & express your feelings , but at the same time if he rejects , accept in sportive way , instead of guilty bcoz life is not the end................
someone , somewere one has to fall in love once in his life
2006-09-24 21:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by jagdish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you? Depending upon the age, we can classify as whether you are in love with him or pure infatuation.
Since you hardly ever talked seriously, or went out together, things are pretty normal and in the beginning stages. Whether for you or for him, its the same. Unless you let some waters pass under you, you won't know how deep both of you are about the relationship. Its natural to feel the absence and your mind is full of him. Its normal. Try to involve yourself in other activities and give the relationship some time to show true colors. Give your friend some free time too. He has to get his things together, start all new things in a new country. Give him time to adjust and then, proceed on your email activity.
2006-09-25 04:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FROM YOUR ANGLE: It is love if you continue to miss him and do not look for the substitution. Of course, you must tell him and know his mind.
FROM HIS ANGLE: It is rather strange that he is not responding your e-mails.
Infatuation is something when you try to just possess someone and it is gone when that someone is not physically around. It does not seem to be a case as far as you are concerned. There are some genuine doubts with regard to the guy who does not care to get in touch with you. FIND HIM OUT AND GET THE THINGS STRAIGHT.
2006-09-25 04:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know what hi5 is, but if its where you met him maybe check it out again and see if you can find him there? If not, you could be right...maybe he doesnt have access to a computer. But since he knows your phone number, it seems he could try to call you and tell you he's okay and he misses you too.
Hehe, it's tough not to hear from someone you love. If you tell him...where do you do that if he doesnt answer emails and doesnt call you?
I hope he contacts you soon dear...seems you love him.
2006-09-25 04:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it was is gone now!! out of sight is out of mind! Get on that hi5 and find another for more infatuation or love or whatever tickles your fancy
2006-09-25 05:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its love only ,i think firstly you both are in infatuation,but as time pass and and you both got to knw each other,after that you fall in love ,and also i think that he is having some trouble so hes not come online.
2006-09-25 05:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by bhavin2tal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don' ask me straight. Stop calling or mailing him for few days and monitor his response. I know its difficult for u but just give a try, it works. I u get possitive response( e.g he keep on trying to contact u as u do) ask him.
2006-09-25 04:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by madhu s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty certain that you love him, but he is not "the one" for you. By the looks of it, he does not feel the same way, so, although it will hurt like hell, (I would know) you have to bring yourself to get over him.
2006-09-25 22:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you get a chance to just talk to him about it. That way you can be honest with him and yourself.
2006-09-25 04:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go baby tell him . which boy would not like a girl who is his best friend.and i am sure he would not mind but simply willget over joyed because a girled proposed him. and he would not br able to reject
2006-09-25 06:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by aswathi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋