My husband says he feels like we've been married 25 years and it has only been 10 months. He feels all the spark of the newly married couple is gone already and it was too quick. For some reason he believes it should last a couple years. What do I do? We both love eachother very much...and as far as I can tell nothing has really changed.
The bedroom is not the biggest issue...we do have different sex drives, but we compromise on that. It's mostly just everyday stuff. He is stressed, went back to college, money has been a little tight, but he says he doesn't know what bothers him, he can't put his finger on it. He wished he could figure it out. He says it might not be all me, he just looks at other couples and sees something we don't have which I don't even know if we ever were exactly like that. I'm just afraid if he feels our marriage is boring without all that newness he will eventually want to leave! We are bored with our small city and w/limited income we can't afford much!
2006-08-18
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