Eight months ago I discovered my husband was having an affair. I found a photo of the other woman on our computer. He said it was an error of judgement and shouldn't have done it, but wanted to leave the marriage because it was stifling, he wanted his freedom, he wasn't the marrying kind, he found himself constantly thinking about the restrictions of marriage, but when I suggested divorce he said he had no problem being married to me, I am a nice person, he just wanted time away from the marriage. He told me he had finished with the other woman, but there were signs that he hadn't. During the last 8 months he has treated me the way I had always wanted to be treated by him but believed he was incapable of doing. It was amazing. Last week he left, but is making plans for when he comes back etc. He called round on Sunday and went about things as if he was just away on a business trip. Our daughter of 16 is confused and upset. Is he thinking about the money? He says he needs quiet.
2006-08-15
23:25:54
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Angela F
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Marriage & Divorce