Why get up everyday and deal with crap, why get up and deal with a lot of stress and anxiety, from your parents and relatives, when we can take the very easy way out and just die. What is the point of us being here. What is the point of me being here. Why deal with life when you're just going to die anyway.
Why can a human die very easily at a young age in his/her life?
Like many people say you just going to be nonexistant after you die.
2006-08-15 23:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by Jabaris H 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
When life throws a few problems our way,we all wish we cud just die and leave it all behind.But life is so desirable.Its got so much to offer.Think about the things you want to do,the places you have never seen,or visited,the parties you are yet to go to,your future wife/Husband and your Kids.
Are those things not reason enough for you to hold on a little longer?
What if life after death is HELL.Do u want to rush to HELL?
What about the people that Love and care about you(am sure you have some).You will give them so much pain when you die.They dont deserve to mourn for you before its your time.Think about it!
2006-08-15 23:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The difference between man and animals is that we consider tomorrow, and the difference between a throw-away life and a meaningful life is the person's attitude. When you were concieved, it is likely that your parents had no intent to create you and so you are an accident of nature. If you feel that life is so meaningless and really accidental, then indded it has no purpose for you. However there are those of us that think we were created to do good things and to help others. It is obvious that you spurn religion, but others believe that there is a hereafter (I am a Buddhist and believe that each incarnation is important for the perfection of the soul), Christians believe, Muslims believe too in paradise...Why do young people die at birth, from horrible diseases and such. I can only explain within the context of my own ideas. In Buddhism we believe that our souls have a circular pattern to follow and the spokes of that wheel are the various incarnations or lives that we must lead. We can advance on the wheel or regress depending on the amount of merit we gather. Even Buddha himself went through many incarnations before he became enlightened. I am not preaching religion to you, but explaining why people have different concepts about life and what happens next. Do we know? No, we don't know, it is a belief. We accept it both as hopeful humans and followers of ideas propounded for thousands of years.
2006-08-15 23:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes many times..but Ive since leanrt that u should no interfere with Gods plan for us. I have attempted suicide many times but things never wokred out the way I want to (the latest being just 4 short years ago after the death of my partner of 7 years) and Im still here... I suggest u get some help..thinking like this is not good and some therapy might help u. This is not the best answer but its all I can offer u
2006-08-16 00:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many good things to live for--dying is just an easy way out, and a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You may be missing out on the "crap," as you put it, but you'll also miss out on the good stuff. I'd personally prefer an argument with my parents every now and then to not ever being able to see another sunset, or not seeing the flowers bloom in the spring.
2006-08-16 00:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , i have thought that many times. The only reason i never did anything about it is i realized that if i died now, i would not experience all the rest of the things in the future that I would have felt. All the good times. All the bad. All the joy. All the pain. Miss out on seeing karma getting even woth all those wrong doers. Its worth living just to see what might happen.
2006-08-16 06:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's been a few times in my life I wished I was dead.
I too for years was looking for the reason/meaning of life. I have a life worth living these days so a lot of meaning for me comes from that now.
It's a silly child's book, but this book helped put some things in perspective for me and why there is pain in the world. It's written by the Conversations with God guy, but you don't need to believe in any god really for this book to make sense.
"The Little Soul and the Sun" by Neale Donald Walsch
2006-08-16 10:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by pianodirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the human is the best thing on this land .human can b good n can b bad. we r here to do everything n it will be counted either + or - so we have to try to get points .
u have to find the way for god this will help u to b calm n understand the meaning of our existance in life n how to deal w it in a good way. sometimes u will face bad times but how u will deal w it? this is the point.
2006-08-15 23:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with you. Dealing with all this you call crap isn't the end of the world. You say you'll be inexistent right? Well then, think of yourself as a kernel corn, undigestable and seemingly insignificant. But put it in a pot over a heating stove, you see it turn into one of life's great snacks! Problems and challenges do that to you. It molds you in order to reach your greatest potential. So if you die, you won't discover how great you can be!
2006-08-16 02:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by psyche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer long here, I will try to sum up with main points.
1st: I know, I understand, I've been THERE, so I know how this feel. I am still somewhat THERE (but much better, I am much stronger now), the only one that keep my life goes on is GOD. Why I don't kill myself? Because I believe in God and God is LOVE, HOPE, FAITH.
God, love, hope and faith, are the meaning of life.
Self esteem: I am worthy because God loves me.
2nd: I really hope you can get some help, if you live in US, you can take a look at this website:
http://www.troubledwith.com/
If you live in Canada
http://www.counsellinggroup.org/
I don't know where in Canada you live in, but I think if you ask them about Christian couselling service in your city, may be they can help you find it.
2006-08-16 01:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by asknanswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my name is Cynthia And yes i have. But i have to think twice because i have a family that loves me and they would miss me . and Iam only 17 but i think that you need to talk to someone close to you and let them now how u feel and let them know every thing. Because i dont want to see a person like your self die. If u need more answer my e-mail is cynthia_rddn@yahoo.com or cynthia_redden-2008@hotmail.com) I'am here all the time
Your friend cynthia
2006-08-15 23:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by cynthia_rddn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋