I'm going through a really hard time with a family situation. My uncle was just diagnosed with lung cancer, and he's in possibly the worst shape anyone with the disease could be in. Obviously, this was all due to smoking. He has max. 8 weeks to live. Now, this is hard enough for me, and thinking about what my aunt is dealing with is even harder. They're only 61, and he's about to leave her for the rest of her life. The last memories she'll ever have of him are in pain and suffering. So that's the background info for my question. See, my b/f's a smoker and right now its really hard for me to deal with this. I've told him how I feel and it's really important to me for him to quit or at least cut back and not smoke around me. Since I only see him on weekends, I dont see what could be so hard for him to do either. I just dont want to be where my Aunt is. Weve been together for about 2 years. I really love him and we plan on marriage. BUT he wont be respectful of my situation. What do I do?
2006-07-29
15:13:48
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